Tactics of a Gaslighter

Bordering Beautiful

Have you heard of gaslighting?

If you鈥檙e unfamiliar with the term, you can read about it here. In the meantime I鈥檒l paraphrase it for you: gaslighting is a tactic that controllers, abusers, and narcissists use to brainwash the people around them. It鈥檚 a slow moving tactic designed to make their victims feel crazy, isolated, unstable, and dependent. And let me tell you, it works.

I鈥檝e recently become familiar with this term after confiding in my sister about a few struggles I鈥檝e had with my (ex)husband. Having been through an emotionally abusive marriage herself, she told me about gaslighting and encouraged me to read up about it. Naturally, I did. And my eyes have opened immensely. Not many people know what gaslighting is, and that needs to change.

Below, I will do my best to display the behaviors of the gaslighter in my life, to hopefully help you鈥

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